Feedback is good. When I drive scooby at hyper speed, I want feedback from the steering wheel and my 'behind'. The feedback from steering will tell me where my tyres are specifically at any particular moment. The feedback from my 'behind' tells me how much traction I have. With these feedbacks, I know how much I can push or should I pull back.
It is the same with relationship. I need feedback often. Failing which I will not know what the hell happened. Some women gives lots of feedback (aka nag nag nag). That's too much. Some women don't give feedback at all (aka the silent treatment). That one is also not good. I prefer the in between.
This can also be translated in making love session (haha, here I go again..) Men prefer women who tells us if we doing it right. You want a bit to the left honey? Okay. You want it upside down? Okay babe, whatever turns you on. You like it this way? Good to know You want a handcuff? eh, getting a bit kinky are you? he he he.
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